While I love being a lone wolf fedi developer, having nobody to discuss development with gets lonely

My partner, friends and family are not devs, so I resort to our discord and matrix channels to excitingly explain my dev related ideas, progress and thoughts, but it's rare to get a reply

Maybe I should settle with AI, I'm not looking for friendship or general convos, rather more technical discussions related to the context

Not being able to explain/share how proud you are of your code sucks