@dansup bill can change.
Boyfriend can wait. I had a friend who's (now wife) decoded to go around the world at the start of their relationship. She came back, they're now married.
Black lab: boyfriend or parents or another loving 3rd party.

Also yesterday I watched From Dusk Till Dawn and it reminded me of my nights out and thought to myself:
Woah. That's the devil sucking the life out of you. Glad I'm out of my wild days and that I survived (relatively) unscathed